when we love someone, we never really give up on that person even if we get hurt badly. we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. that’s how love works. the thought of loosing someone dear to us is scary and sometimes unimaginable and when the warm blow of love fades away, we allow ourselves to fall in a world of make believe where we can keep our relationship and hold on to the feeling even only in our mind. then we lose grip of what reality really is, that the feeling just aren’t there anymore. leaving the past behind is often difficult because it will always take a little part of us with it. it leaves an empty space in our hearts that is slowly filled with bitterness and pain. loving too much doesn’t hurt, it is when we expect his love to be returned that we begin to seek approval and acceptance on the things that we have done, and when we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered. things will never take its turn for the better if we let the past cast shadow upon our lives. there is no use holding on to a feeling that’s already dead. if he belongs to someone else now, then let it be that way. don’t waste your time waiting for someone who never really cared about how you would have felt. open up your heart again and give yourself the chance to find the man who would make loving worth the pain and the sacrifice…