don't flirt with a girl when you don't really mean anything you say. don't text a girl all day long when you're actually texting more than one girl. don't go out on a date with her when you're just take another girl out the next day. don't tell her you're thinking about her when she isn't the only girl in your mind. don't tell her you miss her when you don't make efforts to see her. don't tell her you love her when you would just want to have sex with her. don't make her feel like she's special when there's other girls who are getting the same treatment from you. don't tell her promises that you know you aren't able to fulfill. don't make her believe you care about her when she's just another girl to you. don't give her false hopes. you're just damaging her emotionally.